Rich Gosse, the worldwide authority on dating, gives wildly successful, sold-out talks at the Club every year before Valentine's Day. Last year, Gosse taught a class in flirting; this year, Gosse is turning up the power to teach you to be irresistible. You won't just catch their eye—they'll be walking over to you. But be warned: You may not like hearing some of Gosse’s advice. He will be blunt. He will ask you to look closely at some reasons that things haven't worked, and he'll dive deep to give you a complete plan for changing yourself inside and out. The good news is that once you see what you're doing, you can choose to change. As we said last year, "Stop hugging the wall, the drink or the person you don't want."

Listen to Rich, see what works and what doesn’t. Then make the changes to become irresistible. And . . . you might even find a match at our complimentary wine-and-cheese social hour afterward!